The winter I was eight, we must have had a lot of snowstorms
followed by thaws. There was a small paved patch near our house, and that year
it got covered with a layer of ice, turning it into a mini rink. While it was
small, it was much more convenient than going to the official rink a few blocks
away, which was also outdoors. This was especially so since we always had to
walk to the rink wearing our skates (with guards on the blades, of course).
I was out on the mini rink by myself one morning, skating
slowly around, when I saw a group of boys headed my direction and carrying
hockey sticks. Since the ice wasn’t big enough for them to play on and me to
skate on, I started moving faster, determined to enjoy the last few seconds
before they kicked me off. After all, I was a girl and I was alone. I
understood the laws of the playground.
The boys arrived, and we eyed each other warily. Though they
must have been from the neighborhood, I didn’t know any of them, not surprisingly
since they were a little older than me and we hadn’t been living there that
long.
Finally, one of them spoke. “Do you know how to play
hockey?”
I shook my head. I barely knew how to skate.
They looked at each other. Here it comes, I thought. “Okay,
why don’t you play goalie?” he said. And so I did. They marked off a goal at
one end with piles of clothing, and I stood in front of it, while they skated
around and took shots. I even managed to stop a few. I felt pretty good about
it as I walked back to the house.
Looking back, I realized the boys were probably happy to
have someone else in net—that gave them all the chance to try and score goals.
It was still very generous of them to share the ice with me (even though I was
there first). Their willingness to share the game they loved, even with a girl,
has left me with a fond spot for hockey in my heart ever since.